Can you ever love someone enough to let them go?? Can you ever leave the person your know aint the one for you, but it burns inside when she ain't there...Do you think you should hold on to her or let her go coz she is with someone else...What if you were never going to get her?? These are the questions a guy has to ideally answer once, but looking at the current trend of things "Love" has totally lost its meaning. the above questions have lost their sanctity, guys in 10th grade need a girlfriend for the heck of it, guys in grad school need a girl to be cool, guys in 20s need a girl to not feel left out, then there is the mother of all jokes 'the marriage', which is now a lie of sorts, its a way of saying "ok, i will close myself shut inside me, i will act all my life to be someone i am not". People these days don't connect, their girlfriends don't understand them, their definition of love is a disaster.
Love is more about the understanding and trust than it is about the gifts and dates, being on the phone with "your girl" for 4 hrs a day doesn't mean you love her, but meeting her after 4 months and not being required to open your mouth to tell her, to talk to her does. A friend once asked me "Do you think 2 ppl can understand each other so much as to not use words to talk", i said that is exactly what i believed love was. The purest level and form of understanding and trust. Ppl are lucky enough if they find one such person, with whom they can be themselves, whom they trust and understand, for whom the heart BURNS. There are always ppl in life with whom you know u wouldn't make a great pair mentally, who would only like and understand the outer you, but when you tell your mind that she aint the one, your heart burns, it aint a nice feeling....
Be it the high school crush, the really understanding friend or anyone else if you like her "let her go" if it was real she will come back...
But the thought that i would have to seal off the true me forever coz i dint find THE ONE is a very frightening though...
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u just typed my thoughts but there are two things that i totally disagree:
1.
the concept of "the one". i guess guys mainly mouth these two words alot..lol..i think sealing off oneself and waiting the eternity for "the one"aint d solution..simple funda..unless u go around meeting ppl, how the hell u suppose to recognise "the one" among them?? i bet there ain't any some supernatural phenomenon that will act as an indicator...
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"Be it the high school crush, the really understanding friend or anyone else if you like her "let her go" if it was real she will come back..."
dude,if u let someone go,they will never come back..if u think it was real then never let go of it..
newayz nice post...carry on..ciao
pora pichi munda...
aaaaaaah!! atlast found someone who thinks like me...i always argue on the same thing with my frenz n dad...
before i was in chaos but realised and made some philosophies following my conscience !!
caio !
i totally agree...
if u luv some1..
set dem free..
if dey com back..
den dey're u're'z...
if dey don't..
dey nvr vere u're'z..
do u know that i love you?
completely...
all i wud say is dat "i agree"!!!
very nice thoughts :-)
keep up da gud work!!!
charu... yeah i do... and u know i love u too
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